Moving In Together: Where do We Put All This Stuff?

Since we talked about the pros and cons of living with your significant other a couple of weeks ago, we thought we'd take the opportunity to discuss some of the more fun and/or challenging aspects of living together going forward. Our first topic to discuss is filling and decorating your new apartment. I'm sure some of you have had an idea of what your ideal apartment or house would look like and may even have that prior to moving in with someone. However, living with your significant other also means living with the traffic cone they decided made the best corner decoration ever. 

Although most men in the relationship will say that they don't care what you do with place, they would appreciate some consideration and say in the decor. I know Vinnie prefers less pillows on the bed because that means less work when it is time to go to sleep. Deciding how best to use the space in your new living quarters helps teach you a key lesson about compromise that will carry forward in the relationship. Going forward many, if not all of your decisions, will be made with your partner in mind and after discussing things with them. 

Here are some tips for decorating and furnishing your new place:

Be considerate - of each other when making decor and furniture choices together. He doesn't necessarily want to live in a frilly apartment and you don't want to live in a complete bachelor pad. 

Be honest - the last thing you want to do is bite your tongue against something you really hate. If you don't like that ugly painting, tell your partner. You don't want to regret it every time you see it as you walk in the front door. 

Make concessions - don't be completely set in your ways. Your partner has some great ideas and combining both styles will give your apartment a unique touch. If he has to have something you completely can't stand, be honest with your feelings, but offer to let him hang it in a part of the apartment where it won't bother you. 

Remember, you are making a home together as a couple. You want to incorporate both of your colorful personalities. Do your best to make it into a cozy, inviting place where you can unwind after a long day together. The color of the couch pillows won't matter at the end of the day as long as both of you can cuddle on it.